I believe a person's choice of shoes can say a lot about him/her. I have made two recent purchases (thanks to Sally S. who sent me a Christmas gift with the instructions to pamper myself) that I think reflect two sides of me post-transplant.
The first purchase is a pair of fuchsia, fleece lined clogs. Why does this reflect a side of me? Well, two years ago, I wouldn't have been caught dead in these shoes (too ugly, too fuchsia, too attention getting in a negative way), but the last two years have changed me.
During one of my hospitalizations, a nurse recommended I get a pair of Crocs for in the hospital because they are comfy, easy to get on and off, and can be cleaned and disinfected easily. I took her advice and ordered some Trellos from Land's End. They became my favorite shoes! They are very comfortable and that is really all that matters. In the last two years I have really had to put aside my vanity and just get practical and comfy. So this latest purchase reflects my new freedom in not worrying about what others think and just caring about my comfort.
My second purchase is a pair of beautiful black pumps. That is a huge jump from Fuchsia clogs, but it represents my desire to get my feminine back. I have been so sick for so long, that I have forgotten how great it feels to put on a gorgeous outfit, fix my hair, make up my face, and feel beautiful! For my birthday I got an outfit from a store called White House/Black Market (as I understand it, that is one of Michelle Obama's favorite stores as well!), but didn't have a sexy, cute pair of shoes to go with it. When I saw these in the catalog, I just had to have them. Of course, with my swollen feet, I have not been able to try them out, but I know when I do, I will feel so feminine and beautiful (something I haven't felt in a long time).
So, that is how two pairs of shoes can reflect two very real sides of me. Thank you Sally for giving me the freedom to pamper myself in such special ways! My love to you all! Nancy
4 comments:
Love the pumps! I am so happy for you Nancy! It is amazing what a new pair of shoes can do for your spirit. I remember when I was post pregnancy I too had very swollen feet and ankles, -when the doctor assured me they would go back to normal--I calmed down and got myself a nice pair of warm white slippers and a gorgeous pair of brown heeled boots. I couldn't wait to wear them--it was well worth the wait!
I am so excited for you-ENJOY! Do as much shopping as you can!!!! PAMPER yourself-you deserve it!
Love You!!!!!!XXXXOOOO
Bridgette
Oh, I love those black pumps! Pointy toed shoes just make me feel special, too! The crocs are a great idea for the hospital. I'm sure they feel much better than anything else when your feet are swollen to the max! I can't wait for you to have the energy to dress up each day and feel great! I can't imagine not wearing PJs for the majority of the day anymore. But I love to shop so I'm looking forward to the days of dressing up again! So glad you did something for YOU - pampering heals the soul!
Ooh-La-La Nancy! I must say your choice in shoes is wonderful! I cannot wait to see you all dolled up and wearing those black pumps! Your spirit is what makes you beautiful, but there is no doubt that you will be stunning when you are all dressed up! I look forward to seeing many more of your new purchases. Shopping is a girls best friend! You deserve the pampering, have fun while you do it!
Thank you so much for the phone call last night. It was so great to hear your voice and our conversation just warmed my heart! You have so much hope and optimism in your voice and I can't wait to hear all about your new life experiences!
May God continue to bless and watch over you my dear friend! I love you so much!
Happy Shopping!
Love you,
Debbie
great shoes. someone wise said "the shoes are the mirror of the sole." works for me!! lol
much love,
claire, harley and goob
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